Relationships in 21st Century.. Time for some gyan and funda :)

It’s been quite a while since I wrote something so here we go. Its rainy Sunday, climate is really overcast and I am feeling lonely. The positive side of being alone is that it gives in ample time to think, scrutinize and brood over various things. Just when I was changing channels as I so often do, I was stuck on a program “Emotional Atyachaar”, which is quite a popular show especially among young people like us. Obviously few things which they show are really hilarious as well as obnoxious. But this really is something serious. So today I was thinking about relationships, marriages and loyalty in 21st century.

What is the 1st thing that comes to your mind when you are talking about a relationship? Trust, loyalty, honesty, understanding etc etc.. Trust is the most imperative thing as far as any relationship is concerned- we all know it and there are no two ways about it. Then why people are so casual about relationships? Yesterday, I met a close friend of mine who was really sad because his girlfriend dumped him. Reason was only known to her. The only problem I see is “excessive expectations”. People expect so many things from their respective partner and when it is not fulfilled, they start to feel that things are not going in the right direction. Friction starts to creep in. If you are in a relationship, do not expect much. Give your all to him/her. But people don’t understand this simple thing and that’s where the problem begins.

We are attracted towards things which are temporary – looks, physics, figure, money, status etc and forget the most important thing he/she must possess i.e “True Heart”.
Stand by someone you love and care till your last breath and things should be relatively easy. Life would be much more fun if we understand this simple thing. If you understand this simple thing then understanding and bonding will increase automatically.

Guys and girls, please be honest and loyal with your partner. Real value of important things is realized once we loose them. Few things never come back. Remember, you always get back what you give and this law applies in each and everything. If you cheat someone, you will never be happy ever. Give your all and life is so much fun..

All the best everyone.. Adios!! :D